Much of the stress that people feel doesn’t come from having too much to do. It comes from not finishing what they’ve started. — David Allen
Hello, Sunday! My morning wasn’t what I expected…there were dishes in the sink, toddler creations around the house, laundry pile, blueberries spilled on the floor, our dog peed and pooped inside and chewed up my one of my favorite headbands…then, a glitch when we transferred one computer to another and I lost some of my data which included deleting all my contacts on my phone.
Usually I move through things pretty fast, but I was feeling pretty crabby for about 30 minutes. I felt like I was going to cry with frustration, especially about the computer and phone stuff.
Then, I sat down to meditate. One of the text messages that was saved in the weird glitch was from our dear friend, Dave, who passed away in October. It’s been almost 9 months and I haven’t been able to delete his texts or his phone number. Sitting with his death in my meditation made my so-called “crappy” morning look like bliss.
I felt a rush of gratitude that I am still here (alive) writing these words. Then, I surrendered and shifted. This is the nature of life. Things come and they go. We come and we go. Everything passes. Sometimes the sun shines and sometimes it rains. I was reminded that each breath I breathe is a gift. Truly a gift, no matter what the weather’s like.
Intention/Affirmation: I intend to get clear about what I want to complete during our declutter challenge on the Oasis. I want to get rid everything I don’t love and creating new systems to thrive. I am clearing space in my mind, home and life. #getthingsdone
7:30 morning delight (same as yesterday)
11:00 strawberries and small piece of watermelon
12:45 salmon fillet from last night + small green goddess salad
2:30 chia lemonade
6:00 chicken + guacamole + bigger goddess green salad + fresh coconut meat + water
20 minutes of rebounding
10 minutes of yin yoga before bed
Meditation: 15 minutes + 40 minute napitation
Body Goodness: I am surprisingly not that sore for my workout yesterday. My body feels good. Still moving through stuff. #detoxin’ Thanks to Ellen Mary, I am going to bring back daily skin brushing into my morning routine to help with the cleansing and stimulate the lymph system. I am also amazed at my success rate with naps. I laid down to do a guided meditation and didn’t think I was going to fall asleep and then…my son woke me up when he woke up from his nap. It had been 40 minutes. #queennapper
Mind/Heart/Spirit Goodness: My morning dealings with “stuff” plus the preparation for our declutter challenge next week has really inspired me. I want to elevate my habits in regards to organization/getting things done.
I’m going to dive back into my organization books:
Sink Reflections by Maria Cilley
A Mother’s Rule of Life by Holly Pierlot
The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo
Getting Things Done by Dave Allen
And, one of my favs Leo from zenhabits.net
I have a vision of what it will look and creating simplifying/organizational habits are essential to making that a reality. I must do them until they are just what I do, they become routine. I wouldn’t think of missing my meditation habit. I’ve done it for 8 years without missing a day (some days I was breastfeeding but still showing up). I’ve need to create a strong why and live into the benefits.
I sometimes put things off that don’t light me up. I want to read, write, create and be divinely feminine and not deal with phone calls, cleaning, little things that need to be fixed, etc. But, the reality is we all have to do these things, unless…we hire someone to do it all. Hmmmm, if I’m asking the question if I had it all my way… I may choose to include that in my desire list. 🙂 For now, I feel called to master this skill/habit more.
The ironic thing is when I do a bunch of completions and follow GTD principles I have more space in my life to create + do the things I love because I’m not dissipating energy on things I’m procrastinating on or things I haven’t finished yet. David Allen says:
If you don’t pay appropriate attention to what has your attention, it will take more of your attention than it deserves.
Would love to hear what has worked for you. Books/Resources/Tips?
Gratitude & Appreciation: I am grateful for Whole Foods and the brilliant founder, John Mackey. I am grateful for RIE and all the parenting wisdom I’ve gained in the last 3 years. It has made life sooo much easier. I am grateful for our amazing communication as a family, we rarely have power struggles. I am grateful for the slow rhythm we’ve chosen to live in order to honor our son’s natural rhythm. I am grateful for all the time, money and energy we have to create the life we live, and for all the people that believe in us, support us and love us. #thankyou